How do you tell your parents that you are engaged to your best male gay friend?

Hey there Blogger readers
I need some advice.
How do you tell your parents that you are engaged (or soon to be engaged) to your best male gay friend?
(and you are happy about the marriage proposal)
Haha, I know this is an odd question indeed. I would appreciate answers to be sent to my writer’s email address
writerupdates_dc@yahoo.com

You are great! Thanks!
So, why am I asking this question? I’ll let you know as soon as I get the best answer.

I’ve been trying to come up with an answer for this, but can’t come up with anything quite creative. I am an aspiring writing, and indeed it is a challenge, but I need the answer to not make the parents want to jump off a roof.
Personally, even at my “young” age I have been proposed to twice, and I never told my parents.
First time a guy “proposed” to me I was just graduating from junior high school about to go into high school. So, obviously NO ONE in their right mind believes that a proposal that young is true!! Ha ha. Besides, I know that if I ever told my parents about that, then it would be something they would tell at every family event to bring up an embarrassing subject. (like pulling out naked baby pictures of you when you bring home your boyfriend. A-w-k-w-a-r-d!!!!)
Junior high- High School proposal- TOTAL JOKE! The guy was older than me, by 4 years, meaning he was about to go into college, but I restrain myself from commenting. Seriously.

Second proposal, was somewhat recent. (meaning it was within the last two years.)
This last one was tempting to take into consideration. Not because I am a hopeless romantic, but because he showed up with the ring.
A girl’s worst nightmare; having to “humiliate” a guy by rejecting him when he is kneeling on the ground holding out a ring for you.
Horrible. I felt horrible telling him I did not love him. I can say I LOVE frogs, but I cannot lie and say I love a guy I do not love at all.
His reasons for telling me he liked me a loved me were heart breaking. But what cut the romance, was when he told me that if I married him he would pay for me to finish my education. He would support me.
*clenching of fist*
1) I do not belong to anyone.
2) I do not want a guy thinking I’m something that needs supporting.
3) And I will never have someone pay for me, because then they turn on you and back-stab you.
4) I am no ones girl to be taken care of like a delicate being. I can be independent and I will be.
5) I do not need a guy trying to buy me by pretending to be rich. Money isn’t everything. It buys stuff, but it cannot buy my heart.

I didn’t tell the guy to shove the ring where no one would find it, but I was tempted. (just kidding)
It was not easy handing him back his heart in the black velvet box. I know that if I could have pretended to love him and take advantage of the situation, but I decided against it.
We are acquaintances now. He is about to finish his master’s degree and I’m still studying my college degree.

So, I think, that when it comes to “how do you tell your parents you’re engaged to your best male friend? (who is gay). I would not know.
I can tell you a million ways how to say “no” in a proposal.
I could probably tell you a few romantic ways how to say “yes” in a proposal. But when it comes to being open with the parents about the “future-son-in-law”, I am in BLANK”.


So blogger-readers
What are your suggestions?

Till next time!
Love
D.C.

May!!!

Hey there
I can not believe it is the month of May already!

June and July, mean summer vacations for some people, and for others it just means that the weather is getting hotter and the work hours longer.

Which does it mean for me? I'll let you know later.

Anyway, update of the day... I'm in love with Adam Lambert.
Yes, hot dark hair/blue/green eyes Adam Lambert.
Does he know I exist? Well, that's for me to know and you to find out some day when you receive an invitation saying "Your are invited to the wedding of D.C. and Adam Lambert."

ohhhhhh, la,la... I'm such a fool when it comes to guys with great smiles and wonderful eyes.

I'm insane. haha. But a girl is allowed to dream..

Mrs. Lambert
HA-HA-HA.
oK, so for those of you who know him, you'll know why falling in love with him is so funny and convenient.

Anyway.
Here's a message from a song that I love:

If I had you, that would be the only thing that i would ever need
If I had you, then money fame and fortune never could compete
If I had you, life would be a party it'd be ecstasy
If I had you


;)

love you all.
Till next time.

D.C.

Note about April Post.

LIFE is AMAZING!!
hey there!!!
Ok, I admit that maybe the last post in April was a little harsh, but I'd had a horrible week!!!
the later, last weeks in April were just amazing!! I was on pure natural happiness ecstasy!! There must have been something in the air, because I was just soooo happy!!
Funny thing is, that pure natural happiness, like an adrenaline rush, came over me during the last week in April, when everything was going horribly.
life works in amazing ways. odd. Alas, forgive the last April post.
till next time.
love
D.C.

Happy Birthday To Me

Hey all...
Today, April 22nd, I am 22 years old!! O_O

How I spent my birthday Day.

12:00 Midnight: I got text messages from 2 friends wishing me a Happy Birthday. Another friend called me to my cel phone and wished me a happy birthday. Which was pretty cool, even though I can't remember exactly what we talked about because I was half asleep.

10:00am I woke up late because I don't have class until 4:00pm. (The class ends at 7:00pm.) I walked downstairs to have a special breakfast with my parents and discover my desk chair surrounded with balloons (i'm such a sucker for balloons. I melt!)

11:00am, My family, grandparents, aunt, uncles, etc called to wish me a happy birthday.
12:00pm until 3:00pm my other friends called to make birthday plans for the weekened. I'm going to go Ice-skating with my boyfriend Friday evening. Then I'm going to go have dinner with my gal friends at a little restaurant and gossip until midnight.
7:00pm. I'm going to dinner with my parents and laughing all night. We are going to talk about summer plans and decided that I'll need to have a good time during my summer trip in Spain.
10:00pm I came back home and typed on my typewriter. I have to get up early to go to school tomorrow and then be refreshed to party all night with friends. I better go.

Till next time.
love
D.C.




PS.
All of the above happenings are a lie.

What actually happened was:
Wednesday night 7:00pm Mexican time, my Friends in Europe signed my facebook wishing me happy birthday. It was very touching. I cried. I thought they had forgotten.
Thursday day: A couple other friends signed my Facebook wall. My mother called my grandmother in the US and therefore my grandmother in the US wished me a happy birthday.
I finished doing homework until 3:00pm when it was time to go to school. I've come to class from 4:00pm till 7:00pm.
Then I'm going out to have Pizza with my dad and mom.
The day will end and tomorrow will begin.


I'm not bitter at the fact that people forgot my birthday. I'm just bitter at life that has been happening these past weeks.
I'm bitter at the whole world. And I'm realizing that I hate celebrating my birthday.

Today is just another day for everyone else. It's also just another day for me...

till next time.
love
D.C.

CrAzY!!!

This is insanity.
Complete insanity...

I gave out my blog-address to probably the last person that should know about almost everything that goes on in my mind. hahahha

Anyway, updates from this week.
I've become a huge fan on Lisa Lavie on youtube. She is hysterical. I laugh my head off whenever I see her spoofs. I also enjoy her music. I would really love to have an amazing voice like hers and funny personality.

I recently discovered the channel she made with with her boyfriend Iman aka, Alphacat.
Their channel is called AlphaLavie.
Their uploads are funny as anything. I hope that when I have a boyfriend we can get along as well as these two.

till next time
love
D.C.

I almost told you today

Today, I almost told you how I felt about you. Today I almost told you how much I love you. How I've been in love with you for the past 4/5 years.
I've had crushes, I've dated other people, but in the end I always come back to loving you. You are the person I adore. You are the person who seems perfect to me. I love how I can be myself with you and you like me just like that.
Today I almost told you that I love you, because I know you don't know that's the way I feel about you.
Normally we are alone whenever we get together to talk. But today there was someone else in the room. Not another woman, just another friend.
I wish I had the power to either read your mind or look into the future.
If I could read your mind, I would know if you love me as a friend or something more.
If I could look into the future, I would find out what would happen if I told you how you light up my day with a simple smile. I would find out what would happen if I kissed you.

I'd rather read your mind and find out I'm just a friend to you, than not know what we are.
I'd rather look into the future and see you push me away or reject me, than imagine that each smile you give me is more than what it is.

"I want to hold you so hear me out, I want to show you what love's all about" (Hungry Eyes)


If I had been given to chance today to tell you what you mean to me, I would say:
Thank you for encouraging me to follow my dream of writing and telling me that you like what I write.
Thank you for believing in me and telling me that I am smart. (or at least making me feel smart)
Thank you for listening to me when I don't have much to say.
Thank you for smiling everything we see each other. Thank you for making me feel appreciated.
Thank you for ALL the advice you give me. (big or small advice, it was always helpful)
Thank you for caring.

I love the way you look at me and make me feel like I'm walking on air.
I love your laugh, it could lighten up my whole day. (even just the memory of your laugh makes me laugh.)
I love your eyes, I love the way you see the world through them. I love that you share that with me.
I love your hugs. Even though there have been few, your hug feels sincere and safe.
I love how you have the best humor at the smallest things.
I love how smart you are, yet instead of showing it off, you Share it with everyone.
I love how humble you are when in reality an amazing person.
I love how you make each day seem like it's worth it.


I almost told you all this today. I always told you how much you rock my world. I almost told you about the biggest crush that I've had on you for years. I almost told you that I'd wait forever for you to love me back.

Maybe someday you'll find out. Maybe not.
I just hope you do know, that I care for you a lot and I always will.

Here's a song, that sums up what's in my heart; "Hungry Eyes".
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oKUTOLSeMM


Till Next time.
Love
D.C.





I've been meaning to tell you
I've got this feelin' that won't subside
I look at you and I fantasize
Darlin' tonight
Now I've got you in my sights

With these hungry eyes
One look at you and I can't disguise
I've got hungry eyes
I feel the magic between you and I

I want to hold you so hear me out
I want to show you what love's all about
Darlin' tonight
Now I've got you in my sights

With these hungry eyes
One look at you and I can't disguise
I've got hungry eyes
I feel the magic between you and I

Now I've got you in my sights
With these hungry eyes
Now did I take you by surprise
I need you to see
This love was meant to be

Jesus Christ Superstar, review

I just saw the 1973 film of Jesus Christ Superstar.
I have to say, it was not what I expected...
Out of all the songs, "The Lepers" song was the one I liked best.

I'll share it with you.


Lepers/CROWD

See my eyes, I can hardly see.
See me stand, I can hardly walk.
I believe you can make me whole.
See my tongue, I can hardly talk.
See my skin, I'm a mass of blood.
See my legs, I can hardly stand.
I believe you can make me well.
See my purse, I'm a poor, poor man.
Will you touch, will you mend me Christ?
Won't you touch, will you heal me Christ?
Will you kiss, you can cure me Christ?
Won't you kiss, won't you pay me Christ?

See my eyes, I can hardly see.
See me stand, I can hardly walk.
I believe you can make me whole.
See my tongue, I can hardly talk.
See my skin, I'm a mass of blood.
See my legs, I can hardly stand.
I believe you can make me well.
See my purse, I'm a poor, poor man.
Will you touch, will you mend me Christ?
Won't you touch, will you heal me Christ?
Will you kiss, you can cure me Christ?
Won't you kiss, won't you pay me Christ?




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1VGRwsYDAbY


till next time.

love
D.C.